My Guidelines of Grief:

Today my grandfather passed away so I thought it would be the time to share my beliefs on death with the world:

I don’t feel death is the end. I don’t believe death is the end either. I see death in this beautiful light, allowing the soul to expand, transform, and go to wherever we came from.

Often times, when one is about to cross over they speak about their own loved ones that passed away. I believe the closer one gets to concluding their human experience, the vail between dimensions thins, and they are met with the loved ones who passed away prior. I call this the metamorphosis stage. I don’t see death is a lonely or scary process for the one crossing over.

I don’t believe when we leave this earth we are done forever. I also don’t believe this is my first life time here.

I believe grief is one of the realest process in life. The pain, the guilt, the shock, the disappointment — it can literally eat you alive if time and space isn’t properly taken.

When I lost my boyfriend in 2020, that healing process was dark yet beautiful, and gave me the time and space to start over. In fact, I dug myself deep into a hole because I felt it was the time I would be given in life to reflect and start over. At 19 years old, I erased all parts of my identity and who people told me I was, ensuring I would redefine life under my own conditions, peace, and manifestation — creating the utopia I envision for myself…